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22 Jun

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22 Jun

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WomensMinistry.net Tip of the Week by Jennifer Rothschild

“Whatcha Wanna Talk About?”

As a toddler, our very-verbal daughter would tuck herself into our laps and lean in for a long conversation. “Whatcha wanna talk about?” she would inquire. Her suggestions ranged from elephants to the moon to poop! The topics to engage her young mind were endless.

When you are asked to speak at a special event or Bible study, you may also feel you have an endless list of topics to share… or, you may be at a loss to choose your subject matter. The following tips will help you effectively communicate what God has placed on your heart.

Prepare Today to Speak Tomorrow

Even if you’re not booked for a speaking engagement, keep a book of ideas, revelations, stories and Scriptures that inspire you. Use a handwritten journal or type a document as God reveals His word to you or works through your circumstances. I’ve often wished for soap crayons to record the brilliant thoughts that seem to rise with the steam in the shower! These unforgettable insights are all too soon forgotten, so make sure you record them while they’re fresh in your mind. When asked to speak, you’ll have a ready list of topics to draw from.

If You Don’t Know, It Won’t Flow

As a freelance writer, I’ve been assigned topics I knew very little about, such as choosing a snow blower or using a weed wacker. Had I been asked to speak about installing an above-ground pool, my talk would have been stilted, monotonous, memorized and cautious. Ask me to speak about choosing a front-loading washer, however, and the words roll off my tongue!

Choose topics that have special significance in your life, and talk about subjects you have personally experienced. You’ll rely less on your notes and connect emotionally and intimately with your audience. If you’re asked to speak on a topic that doesn’t come easily to you, it won’t come easily to your audience, either. You may be wise to leave that opportunity to another woman who has already walked that talk.

What To Leave Out

When you’ve chosen your topic, you’ll begin to see it everywhere as your mind becomes saturated with the subject. It’ll pop up on billboards, in songs, even cloud formations! I once added two pages of new revelation to a presentation on the very morning I was to give it, yet it proved to be awkward and ill-fitting. Knowing what to leave out requires more wisdom than what to leave in!

Take care to keep your topic focused. Identify one key statement your audience should remember, and ensure that each point in your presentation supports it. Put any extra material back in your notebook, and trust that God will use it another time.

Peter said, “If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God” (1 Peter 4:11). That’s a tall order, but thankfully the verse goes on to say that God provides the strength or ability when we speak and serve. Prayerfully submit your subject to Him, and He will send His Spirit to work through your well-chosen words.

04 May

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If you stopped by the Neighborhood Cafe after receiving the “Tip of the Week” newsletter from womensministry.net, then welcome! I hope Part 2 of this series, ” God of this City,” equips and enables you to transform your city streets.

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02 Feb

This article was originally published in the February 2, 2011 “Tip of the Week” newsletter from womensministry.net, a publication of Jennifer Rothschild Ministries.

I pondered a recent survey question on a Christian website: “Do you work in ministry?” Why, yes, I do – but perhaps not the way they meant. My paycheck comes from consulting with business owners. We apply Biblical principles to our relationships with employees and customers, and we work as if for the Lord (Col. 3:23). We pray with believing customers and we pray for nonbelievers. God has granted amazing opportunities for us to proclaim the name of Christ in our consulting company.

Monday Morning Ministry

And it seems we’re pretty typical. The women in your ministry spend 50 percent of their time at work, 45 percent at home and only 5 percent at church or church-related activities. The good news is that God’s design is completely, entirely, and wholly sacred—with no parts secular or separate.

The Hebrews used the same word “abad” for “work” and for “worship.” When our work becomes worship, we impact our communities for Christ, no matter who signs our paycheck or where we spend our time. Entire cities will be transformed when we apply this understanding to the seven areas of culture that shape the way a community thinks and behaves:

  1. Arts & Entertainment
  2. Business
  3. Education
  4. Family
  5. Government
  6. Media
  7. Religion

Powerful Ministry

As a women’s ministry leader, you can speak a powerful blessing over the women you serve:

  • Teach them how to be excellent in their area of interest.
  • Release them into your city with a charge to take Christ with them wherever they go.
  • Empower your women to take back your city by identifying the area where they have experience, expertise, opportunity or passion.
  • Based on their first-hand knowledge and experience, identify the specific needs and opportunities for each area in your community.
  • Form small group Bible studies, prayer circles, email chains, bulletin boards or Facebook groups for each area.
  • Weave Biblical principles and powerful prayers into public policy and practical living, knowing the kingdom mindset will have social, economic, political and religious impact in the homes that line your streets.

We all work in ministry, regardless of our occupation. We aren’t ashamed of the Gospel when we clock in at work, and we shouldn’t be ashamed of our success in the so-called secular world when we walk into church. It’s all sacred.

BONUS: ThGod of this City Download #2e DOWNLOAD: If God is For Us helps women identify specific prayer needs for each of the seven areas in their community. Consider forming prayer task forces for each area with women who share the same passion. As women pray for these needs, they should also consider sending encouraging notes to community leaders in those areas.


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If you stopped by the Neighborhood Cafe after receiving the “Tip of the Week” newsletter from womensministry.net, then welcome! I hope today’s article, “God of this City,” gets you fired up to do something exciting in your community.

My relationship with Karen True, Executive Editor at womensministry.net, has been a God-thing from the start. Technology initially connected us as we used sterile contact forms and stilted emails to make introductions. A good old fashioned telephone conversation helped us discover common interests, and a friendship developed around our professional relationship. I am blessed to know her.

I pray that you, too, will be blessed by the fantastic team at womensministry.net and the resources they provide, including these additional articles:

Neighborhood Cafe: The Appointed Season by Amy Lively
Neighborhood Cafe: The Appointed SeasonFebruary 6 started out as any other day. I sat on the yellow loveseat beside a picture window having my morning devotions. I’m sure it was a typical wintery day in central Ohio. While I don’t remember the exact weather, I will never forget . . . keep reading

Neighborhood Cafe: At your Table, In your House by Amy Lively
Neighborhood Cafe: At your Table, In your HouseThe women in your neighborhood are likely to spend five hours and 24 minutes each month following their Facebook friends. Facebook has replaced face-to-face, heart-to-heart conversations. We tweet instead of talk. Our electronic disconnect . . . keep reading

Titus 2 Style: Women’s Ministry that Works by Amy Lively
Titus  2 Style: Women's Ministry that WorksI recently invested in a new health and wellness plan that my friends had been raving over. I did pretty well the first couple of weeks, but when it became apparent I wasn’t going to drop a dress size before an upcoming dinner date, I let up . . . keep reading

Titus 2 Style: 10 Qualifications for Women in Ministry, Part 2 by Amy Lively
Titus  2 Style: 10 Qualifications for Women in Ministry, Part 2In the first article in this series, Amy Lively introduced us to the first ever women’s ministry and the apostle Paul’s guidelines for the making of a woman in leadership. This week, Amy continues with a list of qualities . . . keep reading

Titus 2 Style: 10 Qualifications for Women in Ministry, Part 1 by Amy Lively
Titus  2 Style: 10 Qualifications for Women in Ministry, Part 1“Girlfriend!” How many times have you made this desperate call? From the store fitting room or the hospital waiting room, a good, godly girlfriend is often the first one we call in a crisis–or in happier times, like when the last pair of clearance shoes is our . . . keep reading

Taking it to the Streets by Amy Lively
Taking it to the StreetsHave you ever taken dirty laundry to a Bible study? No, not the kind we air to our girlfriends when we’re having a bad day — the real ring-around-the-collar kind. The Women’s Ministry team at Chase Oaks Church in Plano, Texas is as likely . . . keep reading

Neighborhood Cafe: A Time for Everything by Amy Lively
Neighborhood Cafe: A Time for EverythingIn this series, I will share with you everything I learned about creating a home-based Bible study in my neighborhood. The Lord’s exciting successes and my utter failures will be laid open for you to copy or avoid. You will be able to print invitations to pass out in your own neighborhood . . . keep reading

Neighborhood Cafe: Fill your House by Amy Lively
Neighborhood Cafe: Fill your HouseYou gotta love Lydia. A wife, mother, businesswoman and “worshipper of God,” she was hanging out with some girlfriends at the park when the Lord opened her heart. She responded, and became the first Christian on her street, in her city and even in all of Europe! Lydia’s faith impacted her entire . . . keep reading

Neighborhood Cafe: Who is Your Neighbor? by Amy Lively
Neighborhood Cafe: Who is Your Neighbor?I had lived on the corner of Rosewood and Longwood Drive for over seven years, yet many of the women who lived nearby were complete strangers to me. I didn’t know their joys or their pains, I had no one to call to borrow a cup of sugar . . . keep reading

19 Jan

God of this City

Amy Lively
This article was originally published in the January 19, 2011 “Tip of the Week” newsletter from womensministry.net, a publication of Jennifer Rothschild Ministries.


This week in my beloved little city, we buried a veteran and father of two young children who took his own life. In other news, the newspaper reported the arrest of a restaurant owner for selling drugs on the premises, an historic government building was condemned, schools discussed why heroin addiction in local teens is three times higher than the national average, and two high school football teams lost exciting state play-off games.  Not reported was a painful split at a local church.

Your city probably has its share of problems, too. So did Corinth and Ephesus. When the apostle Paul visited these bustling cities around AD 54, they were well known for extensive commerce, established government, elaborate theaters, pagan temples… and rampant immorality.

Paul didn’t hide out in the local church and invite people to come. In just two chapters in Acts, Paul proclaimed the kingdom of God in seven areas of culture that even today, influence and shape the way a community thinks and behaves:

  1. Family Paul stayed with a family fleeing Roman persecution (18:2)
  2. Business Paul worked a trade (18:3); there was uproar in the marketplace (19:24-27)
  3. Religion Paul spoke in the synagogues (18:4-8, 19:1-8)
  4. Government Paul was tried for crimes (18:12-17, 19:35-41)
  5. Education He taught in the school (19:9)
  6. Media Widespread reporting of miracles (19:17); a riot spread by word-of-mouth (19:32)
  7. Arts and entertainment Magicians became believers (19:19)

A New Measure of Success

What would it look like if you measured the success of your ministry by the health of your community in these seven areas? Instead of counting heads at your spring luncheon, count how many women visit abortion clinics. Take a look at pornography sales, suicide rates, drug use, teen pregnancy, divorce, prison population, graduation rate, poverty level and unemployment – what difference is your ministry making in those areas?

If that seems overwhelming, dear friend, please take heart. These red-letter words of our Savoir jump out from the black text in the midst of our early church history:

“Keep it up, and don’t let anyone intimidate or silence you. No matter what happens, I’m with you and no one is going to be able to hurt you. You have no idea how many people I have on my side in this city.”

Acts 18:9-10 (MSG)

Let’s expand the definition of “kingdom” beyond our church walls and reclaim our cities for Christ. Jesus is still the “God of this City,” and He is on our side!

BONUS: We’ve provided a download, On Your Side, to help your women identify cultural areas where they have influence, experience, expertise, opportunity or passion.

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28 Aug

Titus 2: Women’s Ministry that Works

by Amy Lively

This article was originally published in the August 18, 2010 “Tip of the Week” newsletter from womensministry.net, a publication of Jennifer Rothschild Ministries.

I recently invested in a new health and wellness plan that my friends had been raving over. I did pretty well the first couple of weeks, but when it became apparent I wasn’t going to drop a dress size before an upcoming dinner date, I let up a little. Then a lot.

I won’t tell how much I spent or how much weight I lost, but the price per pound was comparable to caviar! There are no paid sponsorships in my future: I am the poster child for what not to do!

Sometimes I treat God like an As-Seen-On-TV gadget. I get excited at church or emotional during a song, and I listen to my friends talk about their faith. But when God and I get home, and it’s just the two of us together, He doesn’t work like they said—and His user manual is thousands of pages long!

On those days when I’m not gushing goodness, my godly girlfriends hold me accountable. Titus 2:7-8 identifies a successful ministry to women as one that sets an example of good deeds (not misdeeds like mine) using solid biblical teaching modeled in authentic relationships and wholesome conversation. Consistency is key. Unlike my on-again, off-again attempts, an effective women’s ministry acts with integrity every day so no one can find anything bad to say about our leaders, members, church or our Savior.

Titus 2 is a defining chapter for women’s ministry and ends with a reminder that God’s grace enables us to say “No” to our own appetites and live self-controlled and godly lives. When we strive for short-term goals (like reaching a certain dress size or number of members), the only thing we lose is the big picture. Breakthrough will happen in the lives of the women we serve when our teaching, friendships and conversations consistently focus on “the blessed hope—the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ.” (Titus 2:13)

ICEBREAKER: Ask women to bring an item they bought off an infomercial or because of a friend’s recommendation. Give them time to share a bit about the product and why they bought it. Have them answer, “Does it work? Was it what you expected?  Would you recommend it?”

You might even have a white elephant gift exchange for the craziest gadget!

My recent article published in the July 21, 2010 “Tip of the Week” newsletter from womensministry.net, a publication of Jennifer Rothschild Ministries, charted a course for covering the topics listed by Paul in Titus 2. Here is a list of resources for each topic:

How to Love Your Husband

Have a New Husband by Friday: How to Change His Attitude, Behavior & Communication in 5 Days by Dr. Kevin Leman

A Love Worth Giving by Max Lucado

How to Love Your Children

Have a New Kid By Friday by Dr. Kevin Leman

Essentials of Parenting: Raising Kids with a Faith that Lasts by Dr. Greg Smalley

Creative Correction by Lisa Whelchel

How To Be Self-Controlled

Breaking Free by Beth Moore

A Woman’s Guide to Personal Discipline: A Biblical Study of Self-Control and Perseverance by Dr. Rhonda Kelley

How To Be Pure

Beauty by the Book by Laurie Cole

Every Woman’s Battle: Discovering God’s Plan for Sexual and Emotional Fulfillment by Shannon Ethridge

How To Keep House

Apples of Gold by Betty Huzienga

She Cooks by LeAnn Rice

The Messies Manual, 25th anniversary ed.: A Complete Guide to Bringing Order & Beauty to Your Home by Sandra Felton

How To Be Kind

Wisdom Series: Kindness from Zondervan Publishing

Kindness: Reaching Out To Others by Phyllis J. LePeau

How to Be Subject To Your Husband

Marriage on the Rock by Jimmy Evans

What’s Submission Got to Do With It? Find Out from a Woman Like You by Cindy Easley

Additional Resources:

Jennifer Rothschild Resources

Bible Studies and Resources for Women from Lifeway

Proverbs 31 Ministries Resources

21 Jul

Women’s Ministry 101

by Amy Lively

This article was originally published in the July 21, 2010 “Tip of the Week” newsletter from womensministry.net, a publication of Jennifer Rothschild Ministries.

My girlfriend, Carey, taught me how to use Velcro rollers.  My dad taught me how to change a tire.  My mom taught me how to do laundry, and her mom taught me how to make Wedding Soup.  I’ve learned how to build a website and how to use a drill.I must have missed the class on “How To Love Your Husband.”

This is one of seven lessons Women’s Ministry should teach according Titus 2:4-5. You might consider adding these courses to your Women’s Ministry curriculum:

How to Love Your Husband

Learn how to be best friends with your husband and how to watch football without being annoying.  Lab experiments demonstrate how to bask in his presence without expressing every thought that passes through your mind.

How to Love Your Children

How to raise children that rise up and call you blessed instead of calling their shrink.  Care for their little souls as well as their growing bodies with practical exercises on discipline, morals, materialism and manners.

How to be Self-Controlled

How to keep your head regardless of your hormones, husband or household. Monthly refresher courses are available!

How to be Pure

Session starts with a fashion show, ends with discussion on old-fashioned values and modern-day modesty.

How to Keep House

Earn your advanced degree as facilities manager, sanitation engineer, logistics coordinator, computer technician, custodial supervisor, accountant, master chef and chief executive officer of your home.

How to be Kind

Sample this fruit of the Spirit using tried and true recipes for serving up goodness, usefulness, pleasantness, excellence, joyfulness and happiness at your family table.

How to be Subject to Your Husband

You know how to organize your closets, but have you organized your marriage?  Set things in order by cleaning out superior attitudes, uncooperativeness, stubbornness and independence.

As a woman who has personally failed each of these courses at one time or another, it’s a relief to know we can learn these skills. We can be A+ students in Husband Loving 101. We can be taught how to love our children. We can soak up self-control, pick up on purity, become down pat domestic divas, major in kindness and specialize in submission. Visit our Blog for links to Bible studies on these subjects and to leave comments with your own recommendations.

Earn your Master’s Degree from the Master’s word, taught by mature women who have mastered these skills in the workplace!

Visit the Blog at WomensMinistry.net for a list of resources for each topic!