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11 Jul
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All She Speaks participants are registered to win a door prize like this one from WomensMinistry.net and The Neighborhood Cafe!

She Speaks is a life-changing conference for women of every generation seeking to explore the tug on her heart to reach out to the world for Jesus. Through She Speaks, Proverbs 31 Ministries encourages and equips women who are called by God to share our mission to bring God’s peace, perspective and purpose to today’s busy woman. Sharing God’s truth with love is not only a holy calling but a remarkable responsibility.

If you’re attending this conference July 22-24 in Concord, North Carolina, be sure to look me up.

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I’d love to meet you in person!

22 Jun

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22 Jun

This article was originally published in the February 2, 2011 “Tip of the Week” newsletter from womensministry.net, a publication of Jennifer Rothschild Ministries. As a special gift to Tip of the Week readers, please enter Promo Code “wmnet” at checkout and receive 10% off any order through July 31! Click here to visit the Neighborhood Cafe store.


WomensMinistry.net Tip of the Week by Jennifer Rothschild

“Whatcha Wanna Talk About?”

As a toddler, our very-verbal daughter would tuck herself into our laps and lean in for a long conversation. “Whatcha wanna talk about?” she would inquire. Her suggestions ranged from elephants to the moon to poop! The topics to engage her young mind were endless.

When you are asked to speak at a special event or Bible study, you may also feel you have an endless list of topics to share… or, you may be at a loss to choose your subject matter. The following tips will help you effectively communicate what God has placed on your heart.

Prepare Today to Speak Tomorrow

Even if you’re not booked for a speaking engagement, keep a book of ideas, revelations, stories and Scriptures that inspire you. Use a handwritten journal or type a document as God reveals His word to you or works through your circumstances. I’ve often wished for soap crayons to record the brilliant thoughts that seem to rise with the steam in the shower! These unforgettable insights are all too soon forgotten, so make sure you record them while they’re fresh in your mind. When asked to speak, you’ll have a ready list of topics to draw from.

If You Don’t Know, It Won’t Flow

As a freelance writer, I’ve been assigned topics I knew very little about, such as choosing a snow blower or using a weed wacker. Had I been asked to speak about installing an above-ground pool, my talk would have been stilted, monotonous, memorized and cautious. Ask me to speak about choosing a front-loading washer, however, and the words roll off my tongue!

Choose topics that have special significance in your life, and talk about subjects you have personally experienced. You’ll rely less on your notes and connect emotionally and intimately with your audience. If you’re asked to speak on a topic that doesn’t come easily to you, it won’t come easily to your audience, either. You may be wise to leave that opportunity to another woman who has already walked that talk.

What To Leave Out

When you’ve chosen your topic, you’ll begin to see it everywhere as your mind becomes saturated with the subject. It’ll pop up on billboards, in songs, even cloud formations! I once added two pages of new revelation to a presentation on the very morning I was to give it, yet it proved to be awkward and ill-fitting. Knowing what to leave out requires more wisdom than what to leave in!

Take care to keep your topic focused. Identify one key statement your audience should remember, and ensure that each point in your presentation supports it. Put any extra material back in your notebook, and trust that God will use it another time.

Peter said, “If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God” (1 Peter 4:11). That’s a tall order, but thankfully the verse goes on to say that God provides the strength or ability when we speak and serve. Prayerfully submit your subject to Him, and He will send His Spirit to work through your well-chosen words.

10 Jun

My eyes will be on the faithful in the land,
that they may dwell with me;
the one whose walk is blameless
will minister to me.
Psalm 101:6 NIV

Faithful, fruitful women. Do you know any? At the Neighborhood Café, we call them “Good Godly Girlfriends,” or GGG’s for short. They give better advice than Oprah, they’re more real than a “Real Housewife” of any city, and they’ve got more good things up their sleeves than Martha Stewart.

Funny thing is, most days I fall a G or two short myself.

I’m always girly, but some days I’m not the best girlfriend. A friend sticks closer than a sister (Proverbs 17:17 and 18:24) and shares everything God is doing in her life (John 15:15). Sometimes I’m more concerned with my concerns, and I’m too busy to share my sorrows and secret joys.

Some days, my only claim to godliness is that I dusted my Bible. Lovingkindness isn’t long on my To Do list, because  I left my last bit of patience in the long line at the drive-through window.

Most days, I can’t think of something good for dinner, let alone find a morsel of goodness in my thoughts, actions or emotions.

But thank God and praise Jesus, He is my source of goodness, righteousness and faithfulness. All He asks of me is that I seek His face. When I do, I often find His image reflected in the lives of women around me.

GGG's: Who are your Good Godly Girlfriends?

GGG's: Who are your Good Godly Girlfriends?

Like bricks stacked in a wall, you are surrounded by GGG’s beside you, below you and above you.

Who are your GGG’s beside you, in the same row as you? These are the women about your same age, with kids the same age as yours, with similar jobs and availability as you. You share a common lifestyle (marketers would say you have the same demographic profile) but more than that, you share a common love of God.

Who are your GGG’s in the row below you? These are the women following in your footsteps, about to step in the same pile you just wiped off your shoe. They may have fewer wrinkles than you but they definitely have fewer years’ experience. They look up to you for advice about running a home and raising kids, how to love their husbands or how to handle their boss.

Who are your GGG’s in the row above you—women who have already been there, done that, got the t-shirt? These are the women you look at in amazement and think, “I want to be like her when I grow up!” This Good Godly Girlfriend isn’t necessarily older than you, but she is certainly wiser.

I want you to name names, Girlfriend!

Who are your peers in the faith, women with a shared heart for Him, who are running alongside you? Who is looking to you as a role model, needing to know God’s truth for every trouble in her life? Who are your mentors you allow to speak the truth in love to you?

Are your relationships growing, or are they stagnating under the weight of busy-ness, shame or pride? Are you invested into the lives of your friends, your neighbors, your coworkers, the women at your church? Who knows what you made for dinner last night? Who knows what you’re reading in your Bible (or that you haven’t picked it up in weeks)? Who knows about the fight you had with your brother-in-law? Who knows the fears that keep you up at night?

Who knows you? Who do you know?

A Neighborhood Café Bible study in your home is the ideal place to get real with real women. It’s a safe place. It’s a place to lay aside our pretenses and take off our masks. It’s where we share joy unspeakable and pain unbearable. It’s where we confess we don’t have it all together, but we know Who does.  It’s where a women of deep faith grabs the hand of a woman with no faith at all.

Would you like to learn more about starting a Neighborhood Cafe? I promise, you can do it. I will help you.

It’s just what girlfriends do.

25 May

Joy & Trembling

Amy Lively

A few weeks ago I had the pleasure of meeting Lisa Smartt at Oak Hills Church in San Antonio. If you approach neighborhood ministry with a shivery combination of “Joy and Trembling,” then you will love Lisa as much as I do! She shares how we can love our neighbors in spite of our messy houses, sin and inadequacy.

Women’s Ministry Luncheon – Lisa Smartt from Oak Hills Church on Vimeo.

Please visit www.lisasmartt.com to learn more about this sassy Southern girlfriend!

24 May

Yesterday, I held an Open House for my Neighborhood Cafe in Greenville, Texas. It was wonderful!  Six neighborhood ladies came and one sweet mama (mine!).  They stayed nearly two hours! We had a great time sipping our coffee and getting to know one another.  It was awesome!

They all seemed receptive to a fall Bible study, especially the study of Esther… so glad the Lord led me to that one! He does know what He’s doing!

Here’s a little devotional I shared before they left:

A Carrot, an Egg & a Cup of Coffee

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her.  She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up.  She was tired of fighting and struggling.

It seemed as if one problem was solved when a new one would arise.

Her mother took her to the kitchen.  She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire.  Soon the pots came to a boil.  In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans.  She let them sit and boil, without saying a word.

eggIn about 20 minutes, she turned off the burners.  She fished out the carrots and placed them in a bowl.  She pulled out the eggs and placed them in a bowl.  Then she ladled the coffee into a cup.  Turning to her daughter, she said, “Tell me what you see.”  The daughter replied, “Carrots,  eggs, and coffee.”

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots.  She did and noted that they were soft.  The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it.  After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.

coffeeFinally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee.  The daughter smiled, as she smelled the rich aroma and tasted the flavor of the coffee.  She asked, “What does it mean, Mother?”

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity:  boiling water.  Each reacted differently.  The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting.  However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile.  Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its insides became hardened.  The ground coffee beans were unique, however.  After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

“Which are you?” she asked her daughter.  “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?  Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?”

Think of this:  Which am I?  Am I the carrot who seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the hear?  Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship, or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff?  Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I the coffee bean?  The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain.  When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor.  if you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.  When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level?

Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?

At this point, I talked about what makes you a coffee bean… only the presence of the Holy Spirit!  We read Galatians 5:22-24 and Colossians 3:12-17 and talked very briefly about walking in the Spirit (we could have had a whole Bible study here!).  The whole thing took maybe five minutes!

I’ma thinkin’ I’ma likin’ this neighborhood “stuff,” Girlfriend!

I’m a Coffee-Bean-Wanna-Be!

Linda

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04 May

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04 May

The Road to Emmaus

Amy Lively

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Like the disciples walking to Emmaus, your neighbors probably know the basics: Jesus was a great man, He was crucified, He died, some people said He rose again. This is about as far as most people get in the Gospel, and many are as discouraged as the disciples were. When our neighbors feel like Jesus has left the building – POOF! He’s gone – this is when they need you to help them find Him again. Sometimes the Holy Spirit uses your arms to hold her. He uses your words to calm them. He uses your home to comfort them. This teaching, taught at Life Church, shows how we can draw near to our neighbors just like Jesus did on the road to Emmaus.

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Audio Teaching with Presentation and Handout

 

Road to Emmaus

Road to Emmaus Handout

03 May

God of this City

Amy Lively

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“God of this City” is a strategy to weave Biblical principles and powerful prayers into public policy and practical living, so that our kingdom mindset will have social, economic, political and religious impact in the homes that line these streets. As you listen to the audio, which was presented at Life Church, you may also wish to follow along with the presentation and handouts.

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God of This City Presentation

God of This City Part 1 Download. Life Church

God of This City Part 2 Download Life Church

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01 Mar

Spiritual Gifts

Amy Lively

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What Is A Spiritual Gift? A spiritual gift is a supernatural ability given TO each believer FROM the Holy Spirit FOR the purpose of helping the church. Jesus didn’t issue this impossible command for us to go and make disciples – He actually equips us to do that by giving us supernatural aptitudes as well as attitudes. This teaching, which was presented at Grace Community Christian Fellowship, helps you identify your spiritual gifts and apply them in the church. Follow along using the notes that were provided to Amy’s Neighborhood Cafe.

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Neighborhood Cafe Spiritual Gifts